Counterintuitively, the safest action for a puglet is to avoid family members. Especially crazy aunties. Doting grampas and grammas are totally OK, but shnergling aunties without a dollop of conscience or morality are persons to stay away from.
i am snuggling with my loving auntie whom i love and who is comfy and nice
i am snuggling with my auntie who is lovingly petting my silky ear
i am plotting to escape the evil auntie who laughs at my expense now but will pay later